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Personal Reminder

Today before you say an unkind word – Think of someone who can’t speak. Before you complain about the taste of your food – Think of someone who has nothing to eat. Before you complain about your...

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25

Iya, tahun ini saya genap berusia 25 tahun. Yaaaay! *tepuk tangan* Usia yang menurut sebagian besar orang, merupakan usia di mana seseorang bisa dibilang resmi memulai kehidupan dewasanya. Usia yang...

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Twitter Keras? Iya Gitu?

Bullying? Twitter Keras? Otak lu aja kali yang belum cukup buat main Twitter. Pernah gak, ngalamin digencet sana-sini dalam kondisi gak bisa ngelawan sama sekali, gak punya temen buat counter itu?...

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English, Please

Hello I’ve got many emails asked, “Why don’t you write in English? I got updates from your blog in language I don’t understand.” I am very, very sorry for that, folks. This blog contains posts in...

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A Small Gift and A Farewell

Langit Yogyakarta dihiasi mendung tebal menggelayut. Meski sepertinya hujan deras akan segera turun, kenyataannya tak ada satu titik air pun yang jatuh sejak pagi. Cuaca semacam ini tidak pernah gagal...

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Kuserahkan Putriku Padamu – A Note

Saat pertama kali putri kecil kami terlahir di dunia, dia menjadi simbol kebahagiaan bagi kami, orang tuanya. Bahagia yang tiada tara kami rasakan karenanya. Kami menjaganya siang dan malam, sampai...

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Five Months

I was too busy–and too lazy–to update my blog, lately. But hey, hello. How are you? Doing good? It’s been five months since I decided to move to Jakarta, the busiest city in Indonesia. Or so they said....

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The One

She’s staring at the cup lid. She could see steam coming out from green Korean tea she ordered before and keep looking at it as it fades in the air. He’s late. She talks to herself. Why would he asked...

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Song For A Story

I have fallen in love with this song since I heard it for the first time, years ago. Somehow it fits my entire love life story, but I never have any good reason to put the song here. Have you heard...

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2014

Hello! How have you been? I’m sorry there’s not much to be read in this blog since I’ve been too busy (lazy?) to write. So many drafts I have in my head but I always got stuck everytime I open the...

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Reserved

If being single doesn’t mean you’re available, you better put up a sign “Reserved” and stick it to your head. -@dennyed People asked me, “So, are you reserved?” And I boldly answered, “Yes, I am.”...

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What is this? Lust?

Who didn’t confuse love and lust when puberty strikes? I could easily tell others about their current state in terms of lust and love most of the time, albeit I still find myself confuse the two when...

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Book Review: Princesses Behaving Badly

“You think you know her story. You’ve read the Brothers Grimm, you’ve watched the Disney cartoons, you cheered as these virtuous women lived happily ever after. But the lives of real princesses...

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“I’m not good at a one-night stand,” Sam Smith said.

Guess it’s true, I’m not good at a one-night stand But I still need love ’cause I’m just a man These nights never seem to go to plan I don’t want you to leave, will you hold my hand? Oh, won’t you...

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Trust no one. Should we?

I have trust issues. I don’t want to get hurt. Trust, the act of placing confidence in someone or something else—is a fundamental human experience, necessary for society to function and for any person...

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About Love and Compatibility

Love. Freud, for once, got it right. It’s a cornerstone of our humanity; only love protects us enough to grow and change. And increasingly, it’s the lone element absent from our otherwise fortunate...

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Sexual Compatibility

Oh I love it when our body tangled together. Some people use sex to connect, others use it for a release, and others use it to fill a void. I know some people who find that sex is not all that...

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Not the Only One

“Such silence has an actual sound, the sound of disappearance.” ― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce I know men and women who have been messing around with other. Some of them have gone...

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I’m a Yellow

I am Indonesian, Javanese, as both my parents are. People I know told me that I have typical Javanese face: medium-sized eyes, high cheekbones, and slightly prominent jawline–the common facial features...

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The Fourth Chapter

It isn’t that bad–the scar. Truth is… it is not even visible. I didn’t cut deep and long enough to get myself into a morgue, only few drops of blood were out. I even had texts sent to several friends,...

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